Howeberry

From adulthood to parenthood, or something like that…

Friends Rock!

A lot has happened since my last post. We’ve flown to Seattle and back twice, which allowed for some quality family time. The second trip was oddly more relaxing than the first even though I was in town for work. The best part was spending time with my mom to listen baby stories, going through old baby pictures and seeing my baby book.

The first piece of immediately useful advise I received was from our first trip out in May, when I saw my favorite hair stylist for a trim. Her advise was how to continue wearing pre-pregnancy pants long after they stop closing. Her technique involves looping a rubber band around the button hole of your pants, then using the open loop to secure the button to hold the pants closed. Like this:

This has totally allowed me to continue to wear my pre-pregnancy dress pants to work. I’ll also throw on a bella band to cover the gap in my pants. It may not be necessary, but I’d much rather feel like my pants aren’t going anywhere or exposing me, especially in a professional setting!

About a month ago (probably more at this point) a good friend offered to lend me her maternity clothes. On the phone it sounded like she had one box of clothes. When we met up, it turned out to be two boxes packed full clothes. Among the many shorts, pants, shirts and dresses are items that can even be worn to work! I am, however, most excited about the bella band and swimsuits that were found in the boxes.

The bella band will probably get the most use. These things are awesome. If you don’t know what it is, look it up. A bella band is a simple tube of stretchy fabric that is warn over the hips and tummy to cover what shirts and pants can no longer reach. Oddly, they easily cost $30 each, which just feels like robbery because they’re so simple.

The swimsuits mean I can stop scouring the Internet looking for something decent to wear to the Shore this summer. Somehow I don’t think my friends would appreciate it if I exposed my growing belly by wearing a bikini this summer 🙂

Speaking of tummies, mine has been rounding out faster these days. Definitely showing now, although I’ve had people comment that you can’t hardly tell. Just at 22 weeks now and we’ve crossed over the half way point – 18 weeks or so to go. Can you believe Thanksgiving is only four months away?!

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Lookin’ like a baby!

On Friday, May 14 we had our First Trimester Screening. This is used to determine our risk for Down Syndrome and Trisomy, a more serious genetic defect. This test is done between week 11 and 13.6 weeks.

The risk of Down Syndrome based on my age (25) and their averages is 1 in 965. Per my blood work and my age, our risk of Down Syndrome decreased to 1 in 2,917. Using the same guidelines for Trisomy, our risk pre-test was 1 in 1,822 and dropped to 1 in greater than 10,000. Essentially dropping in both categories to that of a 20-year-old. The doctor at the ultrasound clinic essentially said we statistically do not need to worry about either condition.

From the ultrasound, they scanned for nuchal translucency. This is a visual scan for chance of genetic defects that looks at fluid at the back of baby’s neck. The ultrasound tech said Howeberry’s was “nice and thin,” which is a good thing. I’m starting to confuse where I read or heard information, if you’d like to learn more Wikipedia has a pretty nice summary about this screening.

The only potentional cause for concern is my low marker for PAPP-A. First, what the heck is this?! PAPP-A stands for Pregnancy-Associated Plasma Protein A. This was determined from my blood work and the marker is showing low, in the 5th percentile. But what does this mean? Per the clinic doctor, this could mean increased chance of “Growth Disturbance” in the 3rd trimester. Again, what?!  She explained this could mean for low birth-weight, potentially leading to bed-rest for me. But for now they’re suggesting 3 screenings in the 3rd trimester and, essentially, we’ll cross that bridge if we get there. But, she said, they usually find this issue resolves itself and moms with this low marker have healthy babies. So we’ll ask our doctor more about this at our next appointment.

At the time of the ultrasound, I was 13 weeks, 1 day. Howeberry’s heart rate was about 145 beats per minute.

Now for the fun stuff – PICTURES!!

Howeberry is 13 weeks 2 days based on length of 7.13 centimeters/2.8 inches head to rump.

Howeberry feet! Baby's sitting "indian style" so you see leg too.

Practicing tongue movements!

Looking like a baby!

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Two busy weeks

A lot has happened in the last few weeks and I wish I had more time to keep up!

Start of week 10, on Saturday the 24th, we visited my father-in-law for dinner. Steaks were served. And they very sweetly gifted us our first baby outfit! I think it’s kinda adorable.

On Monday the 26, we had our second check up with the doctor, and I’m starting to think we found the right group. Dr Mike (as they call him, cause his brother is another doctor there) was amusing and seemed to have a great time refreshing our memories on basic genetics, specifically relating to blood type at our early 7:30 appointment.

Best part of the appointment was hearing Howeberry’s heart beat! It was rather incredible. First Dr Mike explained we would listen to my heart beat for comparison. He first applied some goo to where he would apply the featal doppler microphone, found a large artery “about the size of your index finger” in my lower abdomen,  and had us listen to my steady beat for a minute. Then he went searching for Howeberry’s, saying it could take up to five minutes to find. I think it took him less than 2 minutes. The heartbeat was strong and sounded about twice as fast as my own, about 150 beats per minute “if we were counting”.

If you’d like to hear what it sounds like, do a YouTube.com search for “10 weeks heartbeat” – apparently people post everything.

On May Day, start of week 11, we kicked off with our first kayaking trip of the season. It was an all day trip across Barnegat Bay, lunched on Island Beach, then paddled back. It was a beautiful, clear 80º day and the water started out calm. This was suppose to be a challenging trip but started rather easy. I like exercise. that doesn’t feel like exercise. On our paddle back, I told our trip guide about being pregnant and mentioned I hoped to continue kayaking through the end of the season. He said most pregnant woman do pretty well, probably because of the lower center of gravity in the boat, which does not interfere with balance. As long as I’m comfortable, I should be fine (yay!). I’ll just need to remind him as I grow so he can arrange for a boat with a wider cockpit.

And the remainder of the week has been crazy! At work, I spent two days working until 10 PM which resulted in about 2 days worth of overtime. The end result was a brand new phone system for the office and a nearly seamless installation for the users. Another successfully organized project that was nearly transparent to the users.

I’ve been so focused on work that I’ve barely had time to enjoy my newest pregnancy development: I’m about to show! My lower abdomen is firm. I use to be able to press in when poking, but now there is resistance. I’m also finding I can no longer suck my tummy in and my pants are starting to fall down as a result. Might be about time to buy pants with elastic built in just so I don’t have to pull them up every time I stand up.

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